Imagine you’re on a date with someone you really like. You sit down, make small talk, order the first round of drinks, and after the first few sips, the conversation suddenly starts to flow; it’s effortless. You can really see this going somewhere. After the meal, they lean in closer, like they’re going to kiss you on the cheek. Then, they pull back, look you in the eyes, bite their bottom lip and say: What are your values?…